[Me coming back here so we can continue delicious memshare.]
It's kinda complicated, but...so there were two people I kinda liked. But instead of just picking one, I...never really talked about it with either of them? I mean, Allen's not gonna live long, so I figured I could hang out with him until he...you know. And then I'd go talk to Ochako again. But I never really talked about it with either of them, because I was scared of getting told no. So we just went our separate ways without really talkin' about it, and now I feel like a huge jerk because I never considered how she might feel about it.
I know the right thing to do is to just talk to her and tell her all of that, and accept whatever answer she might have about it. But I'm scared, you know?
Ohhhh. Yeah, I get it. Doing or saying things that might upset someone... it's always scary.
But you know the right thing to do, and TBH? It might make all of you happier if you just go ahead and do it. Being honest, even if it's scary... that's the only way to have a real friendship or relationship with anyone, you know?
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Date: 2022-06-29 03:59 am (UTC)Besides, if you like her, you should totes ask her out! I bet you'd be cute together~!
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Date: 2022-06-30 11:20 pm (UTC)[For a moment it's like he's imagining it, but he quickly shakes his head.]
...but I have to talk to her first! About other stuff. I was kind of a jerk to her, even if I didn't mean to be.
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Date: 2022-07-02 02:53 am (UTC)You should always talk things out! But what do you mean, you were a jerk? What'd you do?
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Date: 2022-07-03 03:09 am (UTC)It's kinda complicated, but...so there were two people I kinda liked. But instead of just picking one, I...never really talked about it with either of them? I mean, Allen's not gonna live long, so I figured I could hang out with him until he...you know. And then I'd go talk to Ochako again. But I never really talked about it with either of them, because I was scared of getting told no. So we just went our separate ways without really talkin' about it, and now I feel like a huge jerk because I never considered how she might feel about it.
I know the right thing to do is to just talk to her and tell her all of that, and accept whatever answer she might have about it. But I'm scared, you know?
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Date: 2022-07-13 01:48 am (UTC)But you know the right thing to do, and TBH? It might make all of you happier if you just go ahead and do it. Being honest, even if it's scary... that's the only way to have a real friendship or relationship with anyone, you know?
[ speaking from experience, it seems. ]